18 mom hacks to make the first year with your little one as smooth and stress-free as possible. You can thank me later!
Iโve only made it halfway through the first year of parenthood and already I have learned SO much! Parenting is not always a breezy walk in the park (and definitely doesnโt always smell like one!) but these mom hacks have helped me loads. From getting rid of those poopy diaper smells to using leftover breastmilk, I hope these mom hacks will make your life a little easier.
If youโre a mom, youโll be no stranger to the smell of poo-puree! To combat those stinky smells, I love making my own DIY essential oil diffuser by getting a bunch of clay diffuser balls (otherwise known as clay essential oil beads) and adding a few drops of orange essential oil. You donโt have to plug anything in and it will help the room to smell so much better. You can also add a few drops to your diaper bin – it makes such a difference!
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I find Sage will only fall asleep 20-30 minutes into a car ride, and so unless weโre doing a long journey she doesnโt get a full nap before we need to get out of the car. To combat this, I leave 15 minutes early. That way when we arrive I can let her sleep for that extra time before I need to disturb her to go to our appointment or run our errands. This time parked up with the baby sleeping is also an excellent time to catch up on things you never have time to do – like reading a book or calling a friend!
Get a decent baby carrier or sling and wear baby around the house while you get things done. Ours is a lifesaver! It makes things like cleaning and food prep so much easier. Itโs legit the only way I could get anything done when Sage was a newborn. I still wear her on the days sheโs needing more mommy time and cuddles, like when sheโs teething.
There are so many amazing subscription boxes out there which will deliver developmental toys right to your doorstep. These boxes are great because each month (or every 3 months if thatโs what youโve opted for) youโll get new toys which are suited for your babyโs specific age! It takes out all the research and guess work, and youโll probably end up with toys you would never have thought to buy. You also know the toys have been chosen with child development in mind. This is my favourite box!
Socks are not just for feet! Babies scratch a lot, and if youโve ever tried to get mittens on a baby youโll know they never stay on. Socks, however, do! They tend to be much longer and have better elasticity, and they turn your little oneโs hands into little soft panda paws.ย
Before you go to bed, top up baby with a bottle or the boob while they are still sleeping. This is the magical time of the night where you can feed them and they wonโt actually wake up properly. It will fill up their little belly so they can go right back to sleep, and it means they wonโt be waking up hungry an hour after youโve passed out. I did this from when Sage was a newborn to around 5 months and it made a huge difference. The ultimate of mom hacks for an exhausted new parent!
Create a routine for naps and bedtime. This helps baby know when itโs time to wind down and take a nap. It doesnโt have to be a complicated routine. Even something as simple as reading a book in the same spot (ours is our bed) and maybe a lullaby will work. We also do things like closing the black out curtains, placing her in her sleep sack and turning on the white noise machine. These are all things she is aware of and when we do them, she knows itโs time to sleep.
Do yourself a favour. Instead of struggling with clippers (and facing the fear of accidentally catching your precious babyโs skin!) get yourself an electric baby nail file. Baby nails are just so tiny and you canโt exactly ask them to keep still, so a nail file makes it so much easier to do. I find it easiest to do when Iโm breastfeeding, but honestly sheโll let me do it whenever. Itโs like a little baby spa day!
I know I said I love baby socks for stopping scratching, but thatโs where their use comes to an end! When used for their actual purpose they stay on for all of about two seconds and then theyโll be gone. Iโve lost count of how many pairs have gone missing (and how many single socks have gone missing – which is almost more annoying!). They end up stuck in the washing machine. Theyโre just a pain. Instead, I love using tights under baby grows, and I think these mom hacks would work for both girls and boys. Theyโre especially good for the autumn and winter because they keep baby warm, and they actually stay on!
Babies are pretty good at giving us little signals that theyโre sleepy. They pull on their ears, get grouchy, root for the breast etc. But ideally you want to be putting them down for a nap before you reach this stage. This helps prevent an over-tired baby – which, trust me on this one, is no fun! What I did with Sage is I tracked her sleep schedule and figured out what was the best amount of time for her to be awake before she started getting sleepy. I then set myself timers to remind me to put her down for a nap before she hit that tired stage. It also allows you to create a bit of a schedule, which is super helpful in the early months. Just be prepared for that schedule to change constantly!
If you donโt know any good nursery or Disney songs, learn them! I canโt tell you how much singing to Sage has helped when she doesnโt like certain things. Getting washed up post meal time, getting dressed in the morning, diaper changes, you name it! Singing helps calm her right down and actually gets her to smile. For car rides we have saved playlists on hand for when sheโs getting upset and they immediately chill her out. It usually buys us some extra time to get home before she has a full on meltdown.
Bonus Tip: If youโre pregnant and reading this, try singing to your bump! They can hear in there and when theyโre born theyโll be comforted by the familiar sound of your voice and the songs.
When I learnt this hack it was a full on mind-blown moment! Did you know onesies are made with flaps in the shoulders specifically so that you can pull the onesie down baby rather than pulling it over their head? Itโs a lifesaver when thereโs been a poop explosion!ย
Side lying breastfeeding is just the best thing ever. When I bring Sage into bed with me in the early morning and Iโm still half asleep, itโs so nice to be able to lay on my side and feed her. It gives your back a break and means if baby falls back to sleep they can just roll off the breast.
If you havenโt heard of The Wonder Weeks, itโs a book and an app which basically warns you of your babyโs upcoming developmental โleapsโ. These are milestones where babies go through a huge amount of mental change. During these leaps you might find your usually calm, happy baby gets extra fussy. It really is so spot on. I can predict when Iโm going to see behavioural changes in Sage such as being extra clingy or having a loss of appetite.
We love bathtime in the HealthNut home. Sage loves playing in the bath, itโs good for getting her relaxed and sleepy before bedtime and if sheโs fussy a bath always seems to calm her down. I love getting in the bath with her – and she loves it too! The best bit about getting in with her is afterwards I can hand her to daddy, add some more hot water and have a relaxing bath time too. Youโve just got to get past the possible baby pee in the bath situation ๐ We love using these cups in our bath to create a little rain shower.
Note: Be sure to only take a bath with your baby when youโre not totally exhausted. You donโt want to be falling asleep with baby in the bath!
Never throw away that liquid gold! If youโve got leftover breastmilk that they canโt drink, be it because itโs leftover in the bottle or itโs been in the fridge for too long, you can still use it. Just pour it straight in their bath! Itโs so good for their skin. You can also just apply it directly to any irritated skin where theyโve got scratches or diaper rash.ย
This one will not only save you money, but it will also save all your white baby clothes from the dreaded poop stains! My mom actually taught me this hack. You want to do a pre-wash with dish soap for all your poopy garments before you put them in the wash. Just run the dirty area under warm water, add dish soap and scrub until the water runs clear.ย
Itโs crazy how much baby poop stains and if you throw a poopy garment straight into the wash, itโs going to stain all your other clothes and itโs going to set. Youโll never be able to get those marks out once theyโve been through the wash once.ย
Itโs a pain to have to clean your breast pump parts after every single pumping session. To save having to wash them quite so often, you can temporarily store the parts in the fridge. If youโre going to be pumping throughout the day simply toss your parts in the fridge between sessions instead of washing and replacing them every time. Obviously clean them at the end of the day, but this hack will save countless washing up!
What are your top mom hacks? Leave a comment below, because Iโm always on the hunt for new mom hacks!
If youโre interested in seeing more about life as a mom, check out my 6 Months Postpartum Update and Babyโs First Foods: What We Did.
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Thanks for amazing tips. I just have one question about electric baby nail file. Do you need to replace discs or it was “sharp” for whole time? Thank you very much for answer and everything. You are very inspiring and great to listen/watch/read. Bye Adele (Czech republic, Europe)
Can you share where you got the super cute keepsake bowl for the diffuser bowls?? ๐
I had no idea you could put breast pump parts in the fridge in between feedings!!! This could have helped me in so many ways. I was breastfeeding, using a bottle and a pump due to issues with weight. Every feed was so exhausting and I remember crying so many times while I was washing parts after every single session!
Thanks for all the tips! Is it just me or the link to the subscription box doesnโt work? ๐